Priority??

What is priority?



Being more at ease at own house where everything is the way you want



vs



Being constantly shuttling around and feeling like 'got your own house but cannot return to it'



vs



Feeling very frustrated at this



vs



Being able to have some children and grandchildren resume their daily visits and having more children and more grandchildren resume their weekly gatherings at home



vs



Running to from one house to another for every weekend (not sustenable, hor, even though in theory, this is good and offers variety of some sort)



vs



Giving space and peace (ie no *scolding*) for recuperating patient



vs



Getting better economic value from space



vs



Kinship



vs



Friendship



vs



Tenancy



vs



Neighbourliness



vs



Social stigma



vs



Convenience



vs



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Read or Don't Read = Choice. I write to remember, believe it or not, it is up to you. One great fear I always have is that as I age, memory may fail me.

If choice = to read, don't shoot off on a "Of course cannot out-say you because you read Law and have better writing skills or are a more polished writer" kind of line. Don't try to start to pick a fight.