I was told this morning, "It's the nature of my job. You don't like, then boh-bian."
Really? I boh-bian?
Ya, maybe for now I boh-bian. Just wait. I am waiting. Waiting for my sons to grow up. Then I will correct the wrong I have done. Then it will no longer be I boh-bian.
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Based on my assumption on the type of education and social pressure of your sons, I don't think they will be able to impact much more than you, even given your alleged combative stand and presumed unsatisfaction with the current government or higher beings in control of almost every thing in this country.
But worry not, more people are coming to "their senses" but be prepared coz the higher beings will send in the army, really I think he will. I will watch eagerly the cooling off day and the results.
As for the maid. I agree you cannot manage a maid. Neither can mother. I do not agree or second the notion that you go get a maid.
However, a solution needs to be done to relieve mother of her "chores". I am very convinced her "stress" and gan-ziongness led to her spells of dizziness. I am speaking from personal experience.
Well, I can also assume you will counter that with she chose to do these things herself and that you tried very hard to stop her.
My suggestion is: try harder to stop her. Verbally, she has to be reminded not to cook, wash, iron or mind the children. She can play with them and nothing more. She can cook some quick lunches for herself and nothing more.
Give her an ultimatum, if she still insists. That is, maybe ask her to move back to Father's flat, if she stubbornly "disobeys" your stop-work order.
I know it is easy to say, hard to do. But all I can offer from afar, is mental support and the same old saying, try, try and try again.
Good luck!
One more thing: when she visited us, she DID NOTHING! I was a bit surprised but I did not protest cos it was her vacation anyway.
:p
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